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Date: Sat, 19 Mar 2011 18:02:42 -0000

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Subject: Very Good Way to Learn

 

Baba

 

== VERY GOOD WAY TO LEARN ==

 

Namaskar,

As sadhakas, our duty is to learn and grow from each and every

circumstance. Here Baba has given us the secret how to accomplish this.

 

 

BABA’S SPECIAL EXPLANATION

 

Every Ananda Margii is familiar with Baba’s divine blessing: Sarve

bhadra’n’i pashyantu, meaning “See the bright side of everything.” After

so many DMC’s and spiritual gatherings, Baba would bestow this blessing

upon us, by His grace.

 

In His 1988 Shra’van’ii Pu’rn’ima’ discourse, Baba has given us one

special explanation of what it means to “see the bright side.” So

although we may have heard Baba’s blessing – Sarve bhadra’n’i pashyantu

– countless times, we may not be fully aware of its inner spirit and

practical application in our daily lives. That Baba has beautifully

explained on the occasion of Shra’van’ii Pu’rn’ima’ in 1988.

 

That day, in His elaboration of “see the bright side”, Baba explained

that everything in this universe is a mix of the three gun’as: Sentient

(sa’ttvika), mutative (ra’jasik), and static (ta’masik). Thus, everyone

and everything contains at least some amount of both sentient qualities

and static qualities. If sattvagun’a is more dominant then we call that

person or thing, “good”; and if tamahgun’a is more dominant then we call

that person or thing, “bad”.

 

Here the chief point is that everyone and everything – no matter how

good or bad they are – has at least some good qualities. And seeing the

bright side means finding and recognising those good aspects. The great

benefit is that this allows us to learn from every situation and every

interaction.

 

For instance, a person may be a thief and a confirmed sinner, but that

person may also be an excellent planner and organiser. They may have a

great talent to prepare for a given task. In that case, as sadhakas, we

should have the flexibility of mind to see that goodness within that

thief and emulate their unique talent. By that way we can grow and

develop. That can only happen, however, if we are able to see the bright

side.

 

Thus we are always to take brahmabhava (spiritual ideation) and think

that all have come from Him, so everyone – even a thief – has some

bright spots. As sadhakas, this is our approach. In that way we can

learn from everyone. That is Baba’s guideline.

 

The easiest thing in the world is to look at that same thief and just

think he is a useless sinner who has no redeeming qualities. Blinded by

this dark and diseased outlook, we will not be able to understand what a

great planner and tactician that thief is, in which case we will not be

able to learn from him.

 

Here the point is not whether the thief should be absolved of their

crimes. The operative factor is how we view that person. If we see the

bright side, then we can find whatever goodness they invariably possess

– because after all everyone has at least some good qualities, no one is

100% bad – and then we can learn from those good characteristics.

 

The basic spirit of “see the bright side” is to be able to learn

something from everyone. That is Baba’s special message and explanation

from His 1988 Shra’van’ii Pu’rn’ima’ discourse. By that way we will be

able to grow a lot, by His grace.

 

 

IT IS JUST LIKE

 

The above situation of seeing the bright side is akin to the work of

homeopathic researchers. When they see a poisonous snake they do not

just think that it is dangerous and deadly and should therefore be

discarded; those researchers see that snake in a benevolent light – i.e.

they see the bright side – and by that practical outlook they are able

to use that poison from the snake to make a medicine. Because one

inherent quality of that poisonous snake is its medicinal properties.

 

And it is like that with so many people and things. Everyone and

everything has its positive aspect and to overlook that good quality is

to miss out on an opportunity to learn and grow.

 

A person may be extremely lazy but side by side they may have great

knowledge of computers. In that case we should not just tag them as lazy

and walk away; we should also be able to learn from their technical

abilities as well. But this can only happen if we see the bright side,

i.e. take note of their finer qualities.

 

Each and every interaction in life presents us with such an opportunity.

 

Indeed if we think more deeply, we can come up with innumerable examples

of how we can learn from those who are seemingly full of unfavourable

characteristics. By seeing the bright side we will be able to find and

learn from their good qualities.

 

 

BE LIKE A HONEY BEE, NOT A FLY

 

That is why in that same Shra’van’ii Pu’rn’ima’ discourse Baba guides us

that we are to be like a honey bee, not a fly. A honey bee will always

find the sweet spot. If a person is holding a garland the honey bee will

land on that garland. In contrast, if that same person has a wound, then

the fly will go straight to the wound. The honey bee always seeks out

the nectar and the fly always encircles the sores.

 

Likewise, as human beings, by seeing the bright side we will come to

understand that glorious qualities that a person has just like the honey

bee does, and not get caught up in only seeing the negative aspects of a

person like the fly.

 

 

ONE OTHER GREAT BENEFIT: SERVICE

 

So the main benefit of seeing the bright side is that it allows us to

learn in all situations from all people. In that case we will

continually evolve and grow. That is Baba’s special message from the

Shra’van’ii Pu’rn’ima’ gathering.

 

At the the same time, there is a tertiary benefit as well. By seeing the

bright side we will be able to serve others. Because we will be able to

bring them close and help them transform their lives.

 

For example, if we only have disdain for a particular thief and view

them only with disgust, then we keep them at arm’s distance in which

case we will not be able to help them. Whereas if we see them in a

sympathetic light and think that certainly that criminal has some good

quality, then that creates a bond, in which case we can help them make

their life meaningful.

 

No one is to be tossed aside and called rotten forever. We are to help

everyone become moral citizens and enter the path of sadhana. By seeing

the bright side, we are able to best serve others.

 

If we just think that someone is 100% bad, then we can never serve them.

And by serving them, we can not only help the individual rectify

themselves and make society better, but we also fulfill our human

dharma. It makes us better as well.

 

 

ONE DANGEROUS PATH

 

On that 1988 occasion of Shra’van’ii Pu’rn’ima’, Baba’s main emphasis is

on finding out one’s good qualities so that we may learn from them, and

in that process invariably we will be able to serve others as well. That

was His special teaching for us on that day.

 

However, there is also a distinct danger involved in failing to see that

bright side. That too we should be aware of.

 

If we just see the dirt that others have and make crude jokes or always

talk ill of others, then that is a total waste our time on this earth.

Yet unfortunately, that is how many pass their days. They just gossip

about co-workers, or speak negatively about those whom they do not like,

or it plays out in so many ways. But there are two major dangers involved.

 

First, there is no social benefit and society will not be improved by

such derogatory and degrading talk, and secondly, those who indulge in

such negative gossip will actually become like those negative things.

That is the way mind grows – it becomes like its object of ideation.

That is Baba’s distinct warning.

 

So if one talks about another’s laziness, greed, or dirtiness etc, then

that person too will become lazy, greedy, and dirty.

 

Thus if we are not seeing the bright side, then we are seeing the dark

side in which case we will just become diseased, degraded and crude.

That is the very clear and inherent danger.

 

 

BABA’S BLESSING

 

By Baba’s grace He has given us this great teaching – “See the bright

side” – and by taking brahmabhava and seeing the good within all, we can

learn and do so much. By this way of thinking, the mind becomes bigger

and bigger which leads to a more elevated stance in life. We should see

every occasion an opportunity to learn and grow, then we will truly

embody Baba’s grand teaching of “see the bright side.”

 

Sarve’tra sukhinah bhavantu sarve santu nira’maya’h;

Sarve bhadra’n’i pashyantu na kashcid duhkhama’pnuya’t.

 

Let everybody be happy

Let everybody be free from all ailments

Let everybody see the bright side of everything

Let nobody be forced to undergo any suffering or exploitation

 

Namaskar,

Mahesh

 

 

Note 1: PROUT & SEE THE BRIGHT SIDE

 

One other aspect of seeing the bright side is in our Proutistic

endeavours. Part and parcel of Prout is to fight against exploitation

and injustices. We do that in order to help the downtrodden people. In

that case, seeing the bright side means pointing out all the ills in

society in order to make it better, more livable for one and all.

 

By this formula also, we grow as sadhakas because we are taking up the

call to help those in need. Thus pointing out the defects, whether

inside or outside AM, is also part of the teaching of, “Seeing the

bright side”. Here are links to other letters raising this aspect.

 

http://am-global-01.blogspot.com/2009/06/misuse-of-see-bright-side.html

 

http://am-global-01.blogspot.com/2009/03/sarve-bhadrani-pashyantu.html

 

http://am-global-01.blogspot.com/2008/09/so-many-achievements.html

 

 

PRABHAT SAMGIITA

 

“Sa’garebela’y gun’e baluka’y cale gelo mor…” (P.S. 4607)

 

Purport:

 

O’ Baba, my entire day has passed on the shore by the sea counting

the tiny grains of sand. I see now that the deep, dark night descends.

Baba, You did not care to look at me. You forbid me from passing my time

like this, nor did You tear me from the snares and bondages of my

mundane attachments. O’ Parama Purusa, I have spent my life submerged in

petty gains and material indulgences and You did not prohibit me or

dissuade me from these worldly allurements.

Baba, by Your grace, You gave me immense wealth and blessed me with

the intelligence to destroy my petty ego. Baba, You are so gracious, You

gave me sufficient strength to serve the suffering and help those in

need, even then my conscience did not awaken. Baba, although You gave

everything but because my mind did not develop in a spiritual manner, I

have spent all my time counting the grains of sand. Baba, I could not

ultise the strength which You have given me. And instead I just wasted

my time sunk in my own selfish, petty desires.

O’ my Dearmost, now in the depths of this darkness, I roam this

desolate beach in search of You. By Your grace, I am no longer

interested in the oysters or the sand. Baba, when will that resplendent,

spiritual dawn arrive where I get that very Divine Entity to whom I

belong. O’ Parama Purusa, I belong to You, I want only You.

Baba, my whole life has passed – wasted in vain – collecting

material, worldly achievements. At the end of the day, by Your grace I

realise that I should no longer waste my time. Baba, I want You and only

You, the eternal and most loving One…

 

 

NOTE FOR PS #4607:

 

Baba has introduced this song with an ancient vedic shloka. He has done

this with a small number of songs in His Prabhat Samgiita collection and

on some occasions the singers sing the shloka as well. Here is the

shloka presented before PS 4607.

 

Asu’rya’h na’ma te loka’h andhena tamasa’vrta’h;

Ta’m’ste pretya’bhigacchanti ye ke ca’tmahano jana’h

 

This shloka has also been explained in some of His discourses as well.

 

Baba says, “A person who is moving away from Parama Purus’a is heading

towards total annihilation, towards mahatii vinas’t’i.” (NKS, Disc: 15)

 

The meaning or sense is that there is one hell or layer of darkness in

the human mind, and if one gets stuck there they cannot understand the

spiritual realm. Instead they think that mundane things are great.

 

Such was the predicament of the bhakta in the above Prabhat Samgiita,

until finally, by Baba’s grace, the sadhaka’s mind emerged from that

darkness and longed for Him.

 

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